You’re never fully going to eliminate a negative emotion that’s inside of you.Think about all the emotions that you are feeling as parts of the body. You need to feel each of these emotions, the good and the bad, to be whole. No one likes negative emotions. No one likes to feel sad or to feel angry but that doesn’t mean you can just stop feeling them. You are going to go through things in your life that’ll make you feel this way and yes you can choose to ignore them but they’ll still be there. You have to realise that they are shaping you into becoming a stronger person. They are teaching you that at the end of the day you are only human and it’s natural.
Feeling angry at someone doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you human. No one expects you to only feel love and happiness all day everyday. Even the best of us don’t.
People often believe that to be the best version of you, you have to be perfect. Well let me tell you there is no such thing as perfect. But that’s ok. We need to view perfection for what it truly is.
Perfection is a flaw in itself.
I want you to have the image of perfection in your head. The perfect person. Now does this person have scars? What facial expression do they have? Do they look like they’ve lived?
Scars show experience.
Expression shows emotion.
Flaws are so beautiful. Flaws are natural beauty. They’re a form beauty you can’t hide. When someone falls in love with someone else, they fall in love with their flaws. The flaws you have make you stand out. They make us all unique.
We need to stop viewing the world through the eyes of everyone but ourselves.